Dear Sister Z,

                            Don't Cover It Up

There are so many times you come complaining about how you have been treated by men. You complain that they show fake love. You complain that you just don't know what the problem is. Good men aren't coming for you. Have you ever discussed with yourself? Try to have a moment of deep epiphany. You are the same sister who doesn't talk but screams. You don't even know what it means to whisper. You nag from here to Jerusalem and back. You gossip about everyone and complain about almost everything. You dress well, use good makeup but your character is faulty. Even little children find it hard to relate with you because you are always cranky. How will good men come for you?

You should ask yourself some evaluating questions. If your friends were to describe you, how will they describe you? You talk to strangers anyhow and look down on people in a terrible way, what if you have showed yourself to Mr.right and he ran away?

You should stop that being poise on the outside thing because You can obviously see that it doesn't work. Remember when you were so calm because of Brother M and he got close to you, you were still forming to be very nice in character until you just couldn't put up with it anymore and he saw you for the real you. Sister, You cannot cover it up! But, you can decide to change it by working on it. You cannot take your character to a Makeup studio but you can take it to a Break Me studio. You can decide to change who you are by doing what you hear everyday through the word and by his teachers.

Oh, She can speak fire. She can break bones by teaching the word but what does her life preach? Hell! You shouldn't have the form of godliness sister, not because you want a man, or want to be noticed but because you want to be changed, you want to move up from glory to glory

 ''But we all, with unveiled face, beholding as in a mirror the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from glory to glory, just as from the Lord, the Spirit” (2 Corinthians 3:18,'' 

It's about being transformed for his glory and not for the people to be impressed. You should do what you hear and what you preach. No one is after you but you. You should be renewed, totally changed for the glory of the Father and as you begin, the people around you will glorify the father. Then, Mr right will be instructed to come to thy dwelling place.

In summary :  Dear sister, Our Heavenly Father will not allow his beloved son get a ticking time bomb. He is a very detailed and careful father. So, for you to get that particular kinda man. You will have to be that kinda woman.